For those visiting St. Nicholas, understanding the etiquette of the temple is essential for a respectful and meaningful experience. Orthodox “orthopraxy” (right practice) is a bodily reminder of the reverence due to the House of God.
The standard posture for prayer is standing, which signifies the alertness of a servant of God. While St. Nicholas has pews, it is traditional to stand during the most solemn parts of the service—the Gospel reading and the Great Entrance.
Holy Communion is reserved for baptized and chrismated Orthodox Christians who have prepared themselves through fasting and prayer. The Antidoron—blessed bread not used in the sacrament—is offered to everyone, including non-Orthodox, as a token of hospitality and fellowship. It is received cupped in the right hand over the left.
Modest dress is encouraged. Entering the nave should be avoided during the Gospel, the Homily, or the Great Entrance to minimize distraction.
| Behavior | Guideline for St. Nicholas Parishioners and Visitors |
| Holy Communion | Reserved for baptized/chrismated Orthodox Christians who have prepared themselves. |
| Antidoron | Everyone, including non-Orthodox, is welcome to receive this blessed bread at the end of the service. |
| Dress Code | Modest “business casual” is encouraged; women are asked to refrain from lipstick when kissing icons or the cross. |
| Sign of the Cross | Made using the first three fingers together; done frequently during invocations of the Holy Trinity. |
| Arrival/Departure | Entering the nave should be avoided during the Gospel, the Homily, or the Great Entrance to minimize distraction. |